Interview With the Miuccia
Manolo says, the Manolo he does not read the GQ, as it encourages the men to take up the peacocky fashion, however, this month the Manolo he has made the exception, as this issue it includes the interview with the Miuccia. Here is the excerpt:
It is no secret that the Manolo he is the lover of tradition, and the believer in the dignity of the individual, and in the proper respect for the self and others. This is one of the reasons why he is such the fan of the Miuccia, because she knows that the fashion it is truly secondary to these most important of things.
(By the way, the Manolo he disagrees with the Miuccia about the men having more dignity than the women. There are many of the mens who are completely without la dignidad. It is however true that the pressures on the women they are corrosive.)
Here is the more from the Miuccia.
Too often, one sees the person who devotes enormous amounts of the psychic energy to maintaining the outwardly bizarre appearance. Ultimately, this is most often energy wasted, energy that should have been properly devoted to maintaining the inwardly unique or revolutionary way of seeing the world.
We wish to dress well and fashionably for many reasons, for the pleasure of having beautiful objects, for the pleasure of eliciting the envy or desire of others, for the pleasure of the feelings of self-confidence, but most importantly, we should wish to dress well because the clothes they allow others to give us respect.
The Manolo he does not wish to go all Foucault on you, but by this "give us respect" the Manolo he means that the clothes they are the signifiers of position and power.
The fact it is that others they judge us by our clothes. It is not fair, but it is nonetheless completely the way of the world. Thus we should dress well because the good clothes they earn respect and admiration that is not necessarily deserved, but is nonetheless useful.
Of the course, ultimately the clothes they are irrelevant to whether or not that initial respect and admiration they are maintained. True character, as the Miuccia rightly knows, eventually emerges.
Here is what the Manolo he said a few weeks ago at the Manolo for the Men.
(The Manolo he has taken the liberty of adding the illustrative links to the Miuccia's words. And by the way, one these links it is not safe for the place of work. The apologies of the Manolo if this it has caused you concern.)
GQ: You know that show Sex and the City?Manolo says, yes, the interviewer he is not the brightest of the bulbs, but he has nonetheless managed to elicit important responses from the Miuccia about the role of the tradition, respect and dignity.
MP: Embarrassing! I was thinking New York is like that. I have the impression that the people are like that--the women, the bitchiness.
GQ: The thing is, too many women see that show and they think that's how their life should be. Rather than create their life, they imitate a stupid show. And that's the worst thing you can do. Right?
MP: Oh no, it's terrible. Also the way of total and sure unhappiness. It's what I say all the time to my girls in the office here: The more they dress for sex, the less they will have love or sex. These girls throw away so much energy in this search for beauty and sexiness. I think that the old rules were much more clever and better than the rules now. The trouble is, most people are not so generous. Everybody wants love for themselves. I hear this all the time from the women I work with. I hear them say, "I want, I want." I never hear them saying what they want to give.
GQ: Do you tell them that?
MP: Yes, of course. They don't listen. With women, the more unhappy they are, the more undressed they are. This is true. Dignity's another very important part of this. Sex and the City is the opposite of dignity. You have to have dignity for your body--this is with men and women. You need to have dignity towards how you are, how you dress, how you behave. Very important. Men are always much more dignified than most women.
GQ: Why?
MP: Because women have the stress of being beautiful, of age and youth. Men don't have all that. And with women, that stress causes a lot of mistakes and bad choices--a lot of not being their true self. You know, the older I get, the more I prefer to talk to old people. Old people or kids.
It is no secret that the Manolo he is the lover of tradition, and the believer in the dignity of the individual, and in the proper respect for the self and others. This is one of the reasons why he is such the fan of the Miuccia, because she knows that the fashion it is truly secondary to these most important of things.
(By the way, the Manolo he disagrees with the Miuccia about the men having more dignity than the women. There are many of the mens who are completely without la dignidad. It is however true that the pressures on the women they are corrosive.)
Here is the more from the Miuccia.
GQ: [...] So what is the point of fashion? The average GUY pictures a few strange people sitting around indulging their bizarre whims, and I'm not sure you disagree.Manolo says, this is one of the points the Manolo he was trying to make at the Manolo for the Men with regard to the ridiculous men's clothes of the Vivienne Westwood.
MP: Clothes can be important. I am learning this. For instance, often when I design and I wonder what is the point, I think of someone having a bad time in their life. Maybe they are sad, and they wake up and they put on something that I've made, and it makes them feel just a bit better. So in that sense, fashion is a little help in the life of a person. But very little. After all, if you have a serious drama, who cares about the clothes?
GQ: I believe in uniforms—finding a look you like and sticking to it.
MP: I love uniforms because they allow you to hide. No one knows what you are thinking, so it's a very appropriate and correct way to be yourself.
Too often, one sees the person who devotes enormous amounts of the psychic energy to maintaining the outwardly bizarre appearance. Ultimately, this is most often energy wasted, energy that should have been properly devoted to maintaining the inwardly unique or revolutionary way of seeing the world.
We wish to dress well and fashionably for many reasons, for the pleasure of having beautiful objects, for the pleasure of eliciting the envy or desire of others, for the pleasure of the feelings of self-confidence, but most importantly, we should wish to dress well because the clothes they allow others to give us respect.
The Manolo he does not wish to go all Foucault on you, but by this "give us respect" the Manolo he means that the clothes they are the signifiers of position and power.
The fact it is that others they judge us by our clothes. It is not fair, but it is nonetheless completely the way of the world. Thus we should dress well because the good clothes they earn respect and admiration that is not necessarily deserved, but is nonetheless useful.
Of the course, ultimately the clothes they are irrelevant to whether or not that initial respect and admiration they are maintained. True character, as the Miuccia rightly knows, eventually emerges.
Here is what the Manolo he said a few weeks ago at the Manolo for the Men.
The grown up peoples they require the grown up clothes.Manolo says, enough of this! And now, back to the funny pictures of the celebrities.
Do not denigrate the importance of looking "normal". Fashion it is about looking good, not seeking out the look of the abnormal, or the outre, or the purposely ridiculous.
Manolo says, the true radical in the serious well-cut, well-tailored clothes is the one whose thoughts, talents, and actions will change the world. The attention-seeking adolescent in the motley clothes of the fool, this person is merely the comedic sideshow.
(The Manolo he has taken the liberty of adding the illustrative links to the Miuccia's words. And by the way, one these links it is not safe for the place of work. The apologies of the Manolo if this it has caused you concern.)





22 Comments:
Bravo Manolo! Bra --vo.
and bravo to the brave and beautiful Miuccia as well.
Sex and the City is the opposite of dignity. You have to have dignity for your body--this is with men and women. You need to have dignity towards how you are, how you dress, how you behave.Wow, Manolo. Thanks for sharing this. I see why you like Miuccia. I agree 100%. I don't like Sex and the City, either. I think it glamourizes having an uncaring and flip attitude toward personal relationships and life in general. It bothers me that so many other women seem to embrace and imitate this attitude. Dignity, yes, that is the word. I like that word very much.
So many young starlets today dress like tramps. They think this is attractive. It's not attractive. It's tacky. When I am looking at someone, forgive me for not being entertained by the idea that her dress might fall off at any moment, so that I might view one of the "nip slips" that have become so popular.
Thank you, Manolo (and through you, the Muiccia) for so eloquently being beacons in this world of backwards values.
The Mimi wholeheartedly agrees with what she understands the Manolo’s and the Muiccia’s shared thoughts to be concerning the love so many people are desperately looking for, and would point out what the Muiccia hinted at--that what these people are looking for, they will never find until they first give it.
And to quote the Manolo: True character, as the Miuccia rightly knows, eventually emerges.
When one thinks only of one's self, one eventually lose's one's tops, shoes, dinner, relationships, and finally...dignity.
When one thinks of others and forgets, about one's self, one gains lovely layers of life, richly colored and multi-textured, finer than the finest clothes. I applaud you, Manolo, for knowing the true value of dignity in life.
Enjoying clothes and shoes is but a small and entertaining layer of life...how you wear your dignity is another matter entirely. I, like the previous poster, am so weary of the flippant, hip, cruelish media hype of smug, self-satisfied, and vapid so-called fashionistas so aptly exampled in "Sex and the City".
Manolo, thank you for a thoughtful post. I feel better.
Thank you, Manolo! I have printed this column and am saving it for when my ten-year-old changes into a teenager and goes for the Abercrombie look. For now, she is in parochial school, and of course dresses with great dignity! I am fortunate in that, as so often even the little ones dress like their big sisters- it's very sad.
My little girl likes little girl clothes, and we are very happy- especially with Easter coming! I sure the great Manolo can appreciate how precious and short girlhood is.
Cannot add one single word to the thoughts of the Manolo and the Miuccia. You speak my heart. Thank you.
I love it when you have the funny pictures of celebrities, but please don't ever stop posting your deeper thoughts and insights.
The thing about the internet is, you never know when some off-the-cuff observation or an impulsively shared "deep thought" is going to strike a visitor right where they live, and be exactly what she needed to hear on that particular day in her life.
*claps*
*tips hat*
Thanks for reminding me that there are still some sane people in this crazy world.
Bravo! Covered can be much sexier than uncovered!
I agree with Elayne... please don't hesitate to speak your mind in future. What you said about dignity, and "Sex in the City" meant a lot to me. While I sometimes enjoyed the show, I still haven't straightened out all my feelings about it... but I know for all its attempts to portray women as sexually liberated, I can't shake my feeling that it makes them look more like helpless victims and hopeless clowns at getting what they want in life than as happy, fulfilled independent women. They seem to end up used and trapped on the show, which I think may be appropriate according to the choices some of the characters made. But I think many women miss seeing the consequences to the characters' actions, and focus more on the fashion.
Everything that can be uncovered has been uncovered, and everything that can be done has been done. So one can only define oneself by what one is NOT willing to do, it seems to me. Outrageousness is too dull.
Thank you for speaking about character, and noting that "aging gracefully" isn't something we say to be nice about those who can't afford collagen.
And I love the funny stuff, too! :)
the Gina
I agree with Elayne... please don't hesitate to speak your mind in future. What you said about dignity, and "Sex in the City" meant a lot to me. While I sometimes enjoyed the show, I still haven't straightened out all my feelings about it... but I know for all its attempts to portray women as sexually liberated, I can't shake my feeling that it makes them look more like helpless victims and hopeless clowns at getting what they want in life than as happy, fulfilled independent women. They seem to end up used and trapped on the show, which I think may be appropriate according to the choices some of the characters made. But I think many women miss seeing the consequences to the characters' actions, and focus more on the fashion.
Everything that can be uncovered has been uncovered, and everything that can be done has been done. So one can only define oneself by what one is NOT willing to do, it seems to me. Outrageousness is too dull.
Thank you for speaking about character, and noting that "aging gracefully" isn't something we say to be nice about those who can't afford collagen.
And I love the funny stuff, too! :)
the Gina
(Bowing)
Sensei.
-The Myopist
I am struck dumb by the wisdom of the Manolo. I shall seek out the Manolo's site for men, and strive to learn from the Manolo.
One the one hand, you are entirely correct about fashion's place in the world.
On the other hand, you seem to spend an inordinate amount of time writing about it, and attempting to develop yourself into an internet quasi-celebrity.
By that same token, how does "He was an internet quasi-celebrity" look on a tombstone?
Today, I had a really good sandwich. It was turkey on foccaccia bread with some kind of fancy mustard. What's up with pickle loaf? Who eats that stuff? I just don't understand.
The Manolo, he is the genius for recognizing that the super fantastic, it comes from the inside out, not the outside in.
Also the way of total and sure unhappiness. It's what I say all the time to my girls in the office here: The more they dress for sex, the less they will have love or sex. These girls throw away so much energy in this search for beauty and sexiness. I think that the old rules were much more clever and better than the rules now. The trouble is, most people are not so generous. Everybody wants love for themselves. I hear this all the time from the women I work with. I hear them say, "I want, I want." I never hear them saying what they want to give.That answer is just pure gold. It had to be repeated. Thank you for bringing my attention to something I would otherwise never have read.
yew shore do talk funny
WTF is up with Anna Nicole Smith's adobe/paper mache tit??
It is truly a paradox the simultaneous importance and insignificance of designer fashion.
Miuccia's musings on Sex In The City knocked around in my head for a couple days until I ended up wondering if there exists a satisfying TV drama or comedy where the main characters are mature female professionals who aren't total whores. I know television is unnecessary and all but sometimes I need it. Perhaps Fat Actress will fit the bill.
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